In Memory

If you would like to leave a personal message on Cassie's memory board,
please email hamptonrutledge@aol.com.

Cassie, you were my first friend when I moved to Asheville -- the first one that gave "the new girl" a chance. I will never forget that. I remember when you found out that you had diabetes, and I remember how our "afterschool routine" changed. Get off the bus, go to your house, make popcorn, check our blood sugars together and get yours to where it needed to be, play nintendo. Over the past couple of years, I've been involved with JDRF -- meeting lots of children who are going through what you went through. And to this very day, looking back, I am just amazed. You never faltered. We were 11, and every single day . . .man, you were on it! I'm sure it was scary, but you didn't miss a beat -- at 11 -- it was something you had to do, and you just did it. You were never bitter about it --- it never made you feel weaker than everyone else. You just did it - monitoring multiple times every single day. And you held your head high, and laughed your contagious laugh, lived life to the fullest, and blessed and will continue to bless so many people.
Posted by: Christy Richard Mason Wilmington, NC  Jan 14, 2010


Mr, and Mrs. Rutledge and Hampton, you all continue to be in my thoughts and prayers. I think it is absolutely incredible that Cassie will continue to impact lives because of everything you all are doing, as a family and in enabling others to help.Mrs. Rutledge, I am just now learning of the loss of your beautiful Cassie. I am so sorry. No one ever understand why the Lord brings his childern home so early. But his plan is perfect and his promise is true. One day we will see her again. Thank you for introducing her to me. And thank you for sharing in her and your excitement when she made the cheerleading team at Roberson. You were a very proud mom. She was a sweet girl and will always be with you and your family. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers as what would have been her 30th birthday arrives. May the Lord comfort you.
Posted by: Amy (Sprinkle) Hughey Alexander, NC   Jan 07, 2010

My thoughts and prayers are with the family...I'm sorry for your loss..
Posted by: Christine Reeves Arden, NC   Dec 31, 2009

Diane, Hampton, and Gene...I am so sorry for your loss. We have wonderful memories of Cassie and Hampton coming over to our house to play with Brad and Amy for so many years on Hickory Hills. I always enjoyed her, she was a beautiful young lady and a special friend to our family. Our thoughts and prayers are with you during this time. With Love, Jean Graham, Brad and Amy
Posted by: Jean Graham Arden, NC   Nov 11, 2009

I am very saddened to hear about Cassie. I have been her dental hygienist for a couple of years and she was such a fun and personable patient. Your family is in my prayers.
Posted by: Lindsey Deitz Fletcher, NC   Nov 11, 2009

Diane, Gene and Hampton, I just heard about Cassie. I'm truly shocked and very saddened. Cassie will always be the little ball of energy that played with my girls not so many years ago. Many have mentioned in this guestbook her zest for life and that was obvious even back then. I'll treasure my memories of her smile and laughter. The world is a sadder place without her but our loss is heaven's gain. My heart goes out to you and my family and I will keep you in our prayers.
Posted by: Richard Ward Thomasville, NC   Nov 09, 2009

I am so sorry for your loss. I will never forget meeting Cassie and hanging out with her and her friends when Mormor and I visited your family a few years ago. She was so nice and bubbly. My thoughts and prayers are with you!
Posted by: Kirsten Hayworth Fletcher Sugar Hill, GA   Nov 06, 2009

All our love, Alpha Xi Delta
Posted by: Kylee Rose Frye Asheville, NC   Nov 06, 2009

Diane, My heart is broken for you and your family. I will be praying for you to have the grace and peace only Christ can give during this time. My English III classes send their thoughts and prayers to you and are so sorry about Cassie
Posted by: Debbie Davis Asheville, NC   Nov 06, 2009

I am so very sorry. My prayers are with all of you. with warmest love
Posted by: Judy Rhodes Arden, NC   Nov 06, 2009

To the Rutledge Family, I had the pleasure of working with Cassie at Mountain Air. She is one of those people you won’t forget. She always had a big smile, a can do attitude and a great laugh! She definitely will be missed. Debbie Vicha
Posted by: Debbie Vicha Burnsville, NC   Nov 06, 2009

I am devastated at your loss and send all my love and prayers for all of you. Cassie is so beautiful and I can't imagine what you must be going through. Know that you are you are loved and in our thoughts.
Posted by: Becky Henderson Walker Palm Springs, CA   Nov 06, 2009

Cassie, you always brought a smile to everyone you came in contact with and I know you are smiling on us from heaven. My thoughts and prayers go out to family and friends. God Bless and you will forever be missed.
Posted by: Jason Rachels Columbus, MS   Nov 06, 2009

Cassie was always a wonderful person. I knew her thru out school and she was always smiling. She made everyone smile around her. God has a wonderful Angel now in which will be watching over us everyday!!! Cassie you will be truly missed... I have memories of us in school together and from this day forward, I shall cherish those memories. To the Rutledge Family: my thoughts and prayers go out to your family. You had a wonderful daughter and sister. My heart aches for you. May God Bless you in this time of loss. If you shall need anything, please let me know. You will be in my thoughts and prayers.
Posted by: Melissa Rice Arden, NC   Nov 06, 2009

I am so sorry to hear about Cassie. My prayers are with her family.
Posted by: Mollie Ashe Scott Candler, NC   Nov 06, 2009

Dear Rutledge Family, I am so sorry to learn of Cassie's passing. We met only a couple of months ago when she would stop in the Exxon station after work, where we would talk at times for 20-30 minutes. She was truly a beautiful person who had a smile that would light up any room she entered. I will continue to pray asking that our lord will bless each of you during this most difficult time. God bless...
Posted by: Joe Palmer Fletcher, NC   Nov 06, 2009

Dear Rutledge Family, You are in my thoughts and in my prayers.
Posted by: Greg Elingburg Richmond, VA   Nov 06, 2009

Dear Rutledge Family, I was so sorry to learn of Cassie's passing. Although I didn't know her well, I can say that her smile and sunny disposition certainly lit up the world around her. We were blessed at IPM to have the opportunity to know her. Our thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time and the days to come. May you feel the loving comfort of the hand of God. Blessings in Christ,
Posted by: Laura Myers Hendersonville, NC   Nov 05, 2009

Words can't express the great sorrow we feel for your family during this difficult time. We pray that the Lord will give you peace and comfort in the days to come.
Posted by: Mike & Charlene Matera Arden, NC   Nov 05, 2009

Dear Rutledge Family, I didn't know Cassie for very long, but as I was training her to take over my Mountain Air position, we worked very closely for weeks. She was so bright and shiny that it was disarming at times, but I came to know that her love of life and of those around her was completely genuine. I am blessed to know her and look forward to our reunion in Heaven. I pray you take comfort in our God who "...is your refuge, and underneath are the everlasting arms..." Deut 33:27 Love in Christ, Joan
Posted by: Joan Smith Houston, TX   Nov 05, 2009

Dear Rutledge Family, If I could sit across the porch from God, I would thank him for lending us Cassie. The memories of her smiling face will never disappear. If there is anything I can do, please do not hesitate to ask. Love, Damon
Posted by: Damon Smuzynski Oklahoma City, OK   Nov 05, 2009

Dear Rutledge Family, I am sorry for your loss. I loved working with Cassie at Mountain Air and will miss seeing her bright smile and hearing her beautiful laughter. Cassie had a way about her that could turn one of my worst days around just by coming by and smiling. I will miss her as I know you will. Sincerely, Bonnie Shockey
Posted by: Bonnie Shockey Burnsville, NC   Nov 05, 2009

Dear Rutledge Family, I had the pleasure of working with your Cassie at Mounain Air, I know you know this but she was an extraordinary person, always smiling, full of joy, and always willing to help our office any way she could. She was a true professional. My memory of her will always be as a ray of sunshine. We are so sorry for your loss. Please know my family and I are praying and asking our Lord to comfort each of you in this most difficult of times. God Bless you always, Dave and Sharon Coe
Posted by: Dave Coe Weaverville, NC   Nov 05, 2009

Dear Gene, Diane & Hampton, We are so sorry for your loss. Cassie was a GREAT kid, beautiful both inside and out. She was a godsend to me (Nancy) when she helped with my Sunday School class. We will miss her. Blessings, Steve & Nancy
Posted by: Steve and Nancy Chapin Arden, NC   Nov 05, 2009

I will always hold Cassie in my heart as one of my extended children. She will be dearly missed by me and my family. I pray that she is at peace and finding the happiness she so deserves. Aunt Barb
Posted by: Barbara Thompson Duck Key, FL   Nov 05, 2009

Dear Diane, Gene and Hampton, My love and prayers are with the entire family as you go through these difficult hours and days. I hope it brings comfort to know you all have a very beautiful, loving, angelic soul sending her love to you. Love of Cassie is, and will be forever more, in countless hearts.
Posted by: Irene Jurczyk Asheville, NC   Nov 05, 2009

Gene and Diane, I am so sorry to hear about Cassie. Gene, you were one of my role models growing up in the sixties, and I know Cassie was a role model to all she knew and grew up with, and always will be. Peace be with you all.
Posted by: Rick Travis Arden, NC   Nov 05, 2009

Gene, Diane and Hampton, I will never know what you are going through at this time, but know that you are all in my heart and prayers. Cassie was a light in many lives and will be missed by us all. Someday we will be the lucky ones when we join her in our heavenly home. God be with you. I love you, Susan
Posted by: Susan Downs Arden, NC   Nov 05, 2009

I met Cassie when she worked at Coldwell Banker. She was such a lovely girl and always had a smile on her face. I told her I went to school with her uncle,Cha Cha (Howard) and that he was the smartest boy in our class at Valley Springs. My thoughts and condolences to the family.Nancy
Posted by: Nancy Y. Price Asheville, NC, NC   Nov 05, 2009

Diane and Gene...Please know that our thoughts and prayers are with you during this most difficult time. We pray that the Lord will embrace you in his loving arms and help to ease the burden of your loss. May God Bless all of your family. Janice and Gary
Posted by: Gary Aiken Swannanoa, NC   Nov 05, 2009

Blessings and Prayers to the Rutledge family. Cassie will be missed by all those she touched.
Posted by: Gerii Jackson Arden, NC   Nov 05, 2009

Dear Rutledge Family, Cassie and I worked together at Coldwell Banker, she made my day brighter each and every time I saw her. Her love of life, family, friends and animals always fascinated me. Cassie had the warmest smile and heart. I pray for you all during this time and thereafter. May God Bless you all.
Posted by: Brooke Johnson Asheville, NC   Nov 05, 2009

I just want you all to know you are in my thoughts and prayers. Cassie will be missed by many. I pray for God's peace that passes all understanding to surround you all during this time and in the days to come. Love, Amy
Posted by: Amy Smith Wamsley Fletcher, NC   Nov 05, 2009

Dear Rutledge Family- I am so truly sorry for your loss. I worked with Cassie at CB. She truly was a joy, always with a smile on her face and a genuine kindness of spirit. She was an angel here on earth and I feel blessed to have known her.
Posted by: Lee Lennox Hendersonville, NC   Nov 05, 2009

We are all shocked and saddened by Cassie's passing. I have know Cassie only since she came to Mountain Air but know she must have been a wonderful person. She ALWAYS had a warm smile for everyone.
Posted by: Howell Hammond Burnsville, NC   Nov 05, 2009

I was so sad to hear about the loss of Cassie. She was in my class when she was little. She was so sweet and always had a special place in my heart. You are in my thoughts and prayers. Sandra Miller
Posted by: Sandra Miller Asheville, NC   Nov 05, 2009

Dear Rutledge Family, We are so sorry for your loss. Cassie was a wonderful young lady and touched so many lives. Your little Angel will be truly missed. Please know that you are all in our thoughts and prayers.
Posted by: Jerry & Debbie Angel Arden, NC   Nov 05, 2009

Gene, Diane and Hampton, Cassie will be missed by so many people. Please know that we can only imagine the heartbreak and pain you must be feeling right now. We will continue to pray for your family.
Posted by: Carl & Kathy Conley Asheville, NC   Nov 05, 2009

Cassie and I worked together at Coldwell Banker for several years. I can still hear that unique laugh....she called me "LV" with a certain emphasis which always made my day. One day we found out that Asheville High was in a lock-down and Cassie was so upset. Her Mom was working at the school that day and she couldn't get a hold of her. She called her brother and was extremely upset that she couldn't get in touch with her Mom. Luckily everything turned out fine. Cassie was so proud of her family. Life goes on but will never be the same without her.........
Posted by: Lisa Vogel Arden, NC   Nov 05, 2009

We live in the same condo as Cassie. She was always so friendly and always had a smile on her face. We have a lab who LOVED her and she always loved to see him. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family, and we will miss seeing her smiling face.
Posted by: Vanessa & Ben Rhodarmer Fletcher, NC   Nov 05, 2009

Dear Mr. and Mrs. Rutledge. Please accept my sincerest condolences. I had the privilege of working with Cassie at Coldwell Banker. She was such a lovely and considerate lady. She was a dedicated worker, but always had time to recognize all and share her wonderful smile. She was a very kind and thoughtful person. She will be greatly missed. I am thankful for having known her. Please know that you are in my thoughts and prayers.
Posted by: John Edmundson Mills River, NC   Nov 05, 2009

Condolences from the Moseley family, Cassie was a wonderful person who will be missed by all.
Posted by: Josh Moseley Ft Belvoir, VA   Nov 05, 2009

Cassie was one of the most special people I've ever known and made me a better person. My thoughts and prayers are with Mr and Mrs Rutledge and Hampton. Cassie will always be a special part of my life.
Posted by: Kellie Waldrup asheville, NC   Nov 04, 2009

Diane,Gene & Hampton I was so sorry to hear about your loss of Cassie, when Gary sent the email. Even though I did not know her well, I know she lived a wonderful and loving life. My thoughts and prayers are very much with you and many blessings to such long time family friends.
Posted by: Debbie Henderson Candler, NC   Nov 04, 2009

I'm sorry for your loss, I'm thankful To have known Cassie.
Posted by: Richard Waldrup Greenville, SC   Nov 04, 2009

Dear Rutledge Family, I was online Tuesday when I read about Cassie. I worked with Cassie at Coldwell Banker; she was always smiling and a joy to be around. I am very sorry for your loss. Cassie was an inspiration to so many of us. I will keep you in my thoughts and prayers.
Posted by: Tammy Harmon Houston, TX   Nov 04, 2009

Dear Sweet Cassie, you were a bright ray of sunshine everytime I saw you. I feel very privilaged to have known you. My deepest sympathy goes out to your family and friends. I know you are where you need to be according to God's plan but you will be missed so very much! I know you are with some very fine people up there and you will be watching over us!
Posted by: Melanie Betbeze    Nov 04, 2009

Dear Rutledge Family, I am so sorry to hear of your loss. With her beautiful spirit, Cassie spread joy to all who met her. I wish I could be in Asheville on Friday, but know that my thoughts and prayers are with you. Sincerely, Catie Ashburn Hester
Posted by: Catie Ashburn Hester Oxford, MS   Nov 04, 2009

I'm sorry for the Rutledge's loss. Cassie is such a special person, she had to way to turn everyone's frown upside down, corny but true. She will be greatly missed.
Posted by: Jeff L Logan Greensboro, NC   Nov 04, 2009

Diane, I never had the pleasure to meet Cassie though we spoke of her often. Many cultures believe that a new star is born in the heavens when a young life is lost. From this time forward Cassie's star will gleam with the reflected love of her friends and family and the love she bore for them. My prayers for you and Gene are for comfort and remembrance of the love. Don
Posted by: Don Smith Asheville, NC   Nov 04, 2009

To Diane, Gene, and Hampton, I am so very very sorry for your loss of beautiful Cassie. She was and is an amazing spirit. I hope you find peace and comfort in all of those who knew and loved her so dearly. She will be greatly missed and never forgotten. So much love sent your way.... Ryan
Posted by: Ryan Jurczyk Kohler Asheville, NC   Nov 04, 2009

To the Rutledge family, I am so sorry for your loss, please know that you're in my thoughts.
Posted by: Roberta Hansman Pasadena, CA   Nov 04, 2009

Dear Rutledge Family, Please know that my prayers are with you. I am asking the Lord on a daily basis to fill your hearts with His grace and mercy in this time of loss. The memories I have of Cassie are precious to me, and my heart hurts that someone so wonderful had to pass so soon. With much love and prayers Dan Collins
Posted by: Dan Collins Marion, SC   Nov 04, 2009

Gene and Family, So sorry to hear about your loss. I didn't know Cassie very well but she seemed like a very sweet young lady. I can't begain to realize how you must feel losing a daughter, but know that the Lord is in control and Cassie finished the work he had for her and now she is in a much better place. Walking the streets of gold. Your are in our prayers.
Posted by: Annette Davis Stepp Hendersonville, NC   Nov 04, 2009

Cassie touched your life and your soul just by smiling. I miss her. Please accept my condoleances! Cecile Colleague at Mountain Air Country Club - Facebook friend
Posted by: Cecile Brion Burnsville, NC   Nov 04, 2009

I am so sorry for your loss. You are in my thoughts and prayers.
Posted by: Suzie Pruett Asheville, NC   Nov 04, 2009

Diane: I remember we were pregnant at the same time, and you came to a football game. Gene, obviously a "two dab man", was quite impressed with himself, escorting two pregnant women. I cannot imagine the pain of losing Cassie, but hope you three can remember the good times.
Posted by: Wanda Chapel Hill, NC   Nov 04, 2009

Dear Rutledge Family I worked with Cassie at Mountain Air Country Club. We have shared many laughs and fun stories about our animals. I was so happy to see her get her kitten and could see what joy "Molly" brought to her life. My heart grieves for your family. Cassie seemed like a daughter to me, and I will miss her sorely. God bless you and hold you during this time. I will keep you in my prayers.
Posted by: Denise Gibbs Burnsville, NC   Nov 04, 2009

Diane: I remember we were pregnant at the same time, and you came to a football game. Gene, obviously a "two dab man", was quite impressed with himself, escorting two pregnant women. I cannot imagine the pain of losing Cassie, but hope you three can remember the good times.
Posted by: Wanda Chapel Hill, NC   Nov 04, 2009

Dear Rutledge Family, I saw Cassie's name in today's Citizen-Times and am so sorry to hear of your loss. Although I did not know her well and it has been some time since I last saw her, she impressed me as being a caring and wonderful person. Again, my sincere condolences to you and I am sure, a very wide circle of family and friends.
Posted by: Daniel Gundlach Fairview, NC   Nov 04, 2009

Gene, Diane, and Hampton: James called me this morning to tell me about Cassie. I am deeply moved by her passing. Your family has always meant a lot to everyone in our family, the friendship and the caring has been a blessing. Our prayers are with all of you.
Posted by: Gary Henderson Kennesaw, GA   Nov 04, 2009

Letty, myself, and our kids are all thinking of your family, and wishing we could be with you in NC. I have so many fond memories of playing with Cassie and Hampton all around Arden, and wish I could have kept in closer contact once we moved here to Texas. Our love and happy thoughts are with you.
Posted by: Patrick Sean Henderson San Antonio, TX   Nov 04, 2009

Dear Diane & Gene, My thoughts and prayers are with you. Coming from a bereaved mother myself I can truly relate to the lost of losing a child. The memories you have of Cassie will keep her living forever in your heart, which will put a smile on your face, everytime you think of her. God will walk with you every step of the way as you begin this grief journey. If you ever need to talk to another parent, please feel free to call me. My number is 828-890-8227, and my e-mail is mgollnic@gte.net Hugs and prayers, Marisol-forever Jose's mom The Compassionate Friends - a support group for bereaved parents who have lost a child of any cause.
Posted by: Marisol Gollnick Hendersonville, NC   Nov 04, 2009

Dear Rutledge Family, My deepest and sincerest condolences go out to you and your family. While Cassie and I went to T.C. Roberson together, I didn’t really get to know her until we started at UNC Asheville. At that time she became a true and dear friend and could lighten up any bad day with her bright and beautiful smile. She will truly be missed. Jonathan Moorrees
Posted by: Jonathan Moorrees Greenville, SC   Nov 04, 2009

Diane: Know that you are in my prayers. Enjoy the good memories. Paula Bryson
Posted by: Paula Bryson Asheville, NC   Nov 04, 2009

Cassie you will be missed by so many. I only knew you a short time, yet you left an impression on my life as you did with so many others. To the Rutledge Family; you are all in my thoughts and prayers.
Posted by: Heather DeBoer Roanoke, VA   Nov 04, 2009

I met Cassie when I first began working at Coldwell Banker. I used to go home and share stories with my husband how the the friendliest person worked at the front desk and how lucky they were to have her there to greet people. Cassie was so happy-go-lucky and fun to be around. She truly was a wonderful person and will be missed. My thoughts and prayers are with her family.
Posted by: Barb Fiedler Asheville, NC   Nov 04, 2009

Dear Rutledge Family, I am so grateful to have known Cassie. It seems like yesterday she was brightening the halls of TC with her smile and laughter. My deepest sympathies to your family- may your memories of Cassie comfort you during this difficult time.
Posted by: Liz Rogers Weathers Charlotte, NC   Nov 04, 2009

Gene and Diane, I was dumbstruck to hear the news this morning. From the bottom of our hearts, all our sympathies are with you as well as our prayers. What a warm and wondereful person, what a warm and wonderful life. We are all deeply touched. Jim and Bobbi
Posted by: Jim Henderson San Antonio, TX   Nov 04, 2009

Diane, Gene & Hampton - not sure if you remember me or not, but I lived next door to you until I was about 8... i've remained friends with the Reeds, and heard about the passing of Cassie tonight. I have so many fond memories of growing up with Cassie and Hampton - from remembering Lady chasing cars, Cassie getting called out for yelling on her Big Wheel too loud, to daring Hampton to ride down Forest Ridge Dr (and he had to get stitches as a result)... those are the things that made my childhood memorable. I'll be thinking of you. I'm very sorry for your loss. Julie Mock
Posted by: Julie Mock Greenville, SC   Nov 04, 2009

Diane, Gene, and Hampton, You are in my thoughts and prayers. What a blessing and inspiration Cassie was to all who knew her. Know that you are surrounded by family and friends who love and reach out to you. Always, Elaine
Posted by: Elaine Sutton Candler, NC   Nov 04, 2009

Hampton and Family: You are all in my thoughts and prayers during this difficult time. I hope you can find peace in your memories and turn to each other for support. May God Bless all of you.
Posted by: Amy Parton Grace Fletcher, NC   Nov 04, 2009

Dear Rutledge Family, I am so sorry for your loss. Cassie will never be forgotten. She was an amazing person who enjoyed life. I have many fond memories of Cassie through elementary and middle school. My dad and I send our deepest condolences, we are praying for you and your family.
Posted by: Holly Leonard Yorktown, VA   Nov 04, 2009

Dear Diane and Gene, I was so sorry to hear of Cassie passing away today. Knowing you both and then getting to know Cassie when she and I both were at CB was a rare treat! She was a happy, sweet girl. Please know I am thinking of you both now. Shaw
Posted by: Shaw Hollingsworth Hendersonville, NC   Nov 04, 2009

Cassie and I talked a few weeks ago at church and I will always remember how bright she was and how full of life she was. She will be truly missed by our church family. We can never understand what God has planned but someday it will be shown to us. The one thing that we can be sure of is that Cassie is now in the ams of her Lord and Savior and her family that has gone on before her. Love and Blessings, Jan
Posted by: Jan Whiteman Arden, NC   Nov 04, 2009

Gene, Diane,and Hampton, We are thinking of you, and our prayers will be ongoing. Cassie wlll always be blessing to so many of us who were lucky to know her. We will see you on Thursday. Phil, Robin, and Jamie Shope
Posted by: Robin and Phil Shope Arden, NC   Nov 04, 2009

Diane, Please know that you and your family are in my thoughts and prayers. I am so sorry for your loss. I wish I had the right words to help you through this time. If there is anything I can do please do not hesitate.
Posted by: Sarah McElhone Lake James, NC   Nov 04, 2009

Please know that Mary and I will keep the Rutledge family in our prayers.
Posted by: Gene Bowman Greenville, SC   Nov 04, 2009

Diane, if there is anything I can do for you please, please call me any time night or day...I've been wanting to call and am forcing myself not to as I know you are slammed with calls and well wishers and you're probably so tired by now you can't see or think straight. But know that whatever you need, whenever you need it I am but a phone call away. We will see you thursday evening......
Posted by: mary mowery mills river, NC   Nov 04, 2009

My prayers are with you at this time of great sorrow. Cassie was a bright ray of sunshine she will truly be missed.
Posted by: Melanie Betbeze Leicester, NC   Nov 04, 2009

Diane and Gene: Tom and I both want you to know our prayers and thoughts are with you in this time of sorrow. God Bless you and your family.
Posted by: Kathy Aardema Arden, NC   Nov 04, 2009

The Testo family sends our condolences.
Posted by: Judy Testo Arden, NC   Nov 04, 2009

Gene, Diane and Hampton; Words cannot convey the sorrow we feel for you all.....Cassie was loved by so many and was and will always be a beautiful young lady. Have so many fond memories of her and feel priviledged to have known her. You will see her again, this is assured but I know that doesn't help now...know that so many prayers are on your behalf for the courage and strength to go through these next several months. You are all loved abundantly specifically by our Savior. We love you guys!!!!!!!!!!!
Posted by: Mary and Doug Mowery Mills River, NC   Nov 04, 2009

Diane, Gene & Hampton, Cassie was admired and loved by everyone who knew her. I have many fond memories of Cassie. May God grant you comfort and strength in the days ahead. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
Posted by: Joe & Gretchen Barkowitz Fletcher, NC   Nov 04, 2009

Diane My heart aches at hearing of the loss of your beautiful daughter. Words are difficult to express what I feel for you and your family. Please know you are in my thoughts and prayers. May the comfort of a higher being sustain you and your family during this difficult time. I will continue to pray for peace and understanding.
Posted by: Eleanor Cook Harrisburg, NC   Nov 03, 2009

Our thoughts and prayers are with you all at this time.
Posted by: David and Mary Richard Arden, NC   Nov 03, 2009

I knew Cassie as a classmate in middle and high school. She was so kind, intelligent, and always smiling! She and her family are in my thoughts.
Posted by: Cecile Delille Atlanta, GA   Nov 03, 2009

I knew cassie only as a classmate in high school, but she was always very kind and happy! I pray for your family during this time of grief!
Posted by: Samantha Ballard-Costner Orange city, FL   Nov 03, 2009

Dear Rutledge Family, My deepest sympathy for the loss of Cassie. We are so proud of the daughter you raised, and the life she led. She was a wonderful woman with a beautiful smile that made an impact on so many lives. Thank you for giving us the opportunity to know her. Our thoughts and prayers are with you, and may God make himself known and bless you during this tough time. Psalm 91:1-2 He who dwells in the shelter of the Most High will rest in the shadow of the Almighty. I will say of the LORD, "He is my refuge and my fortress, my God, in whom I trust."
Posted by: Jon Narveson Charlotte, NC   Nov 03, 2009

WE WILL WALK AGAIN The shock is over Reality has set in The tears still rain The heart still aches Your smile will reign again Your kind words to be remembered Your love still flows Your good works delivered You loved and gave Influenced and Inspired Laughed and cried For thus your a bride You deserved better than man could offer So He brought you up and made you his It doesn't come easy As no good things do But His work is complete She is with You We will soon follow And pass on the sorrow We will never forget Cassandra Anne The God sent lamb We miss you and love you We will walk again God Thank You for sending such a caring gentle loving passionate woman to touch our lives and to remind us what this journey is all about!!!!!! Peace be with the Rutledges
Posted by: Dustin Pulliam Arden, NC   Nov 03, 2009

Cassie-you touched so many people in so many loving ways....you will always be remembered....condolences to the family on this great loss.-Linsey
Posted by: Linsey Henthorn    Nov 03, 2009

Cassie, you touched my heart in so many wonderful ways. You will always be remebered as one of the sweetest and most cheerful, carrying people i ever had the pleasure of knowing. I have been truely blessed to call you my friend. Thank you for the memories. Always will you be remebered and never forgotten. I love you sweetie. To the family, i grieve for your loss. My heart, as well as many go out to you and the rest of your family in this time.
Posted by: Rashaad Smith Atlanta, GA   Nov 03, 2009

You and your family have been in my thoughts and prayers since I heard yesterday morning. There are not enough words to express how I feel for you at this time. I can only imagine... May God Bless you with peace and comfort.
Posted by: Pat Mosley Asheville, NC   Nov 03, 2009

We are so sorry for your lose. Cassie touched everyone she met.
Posted by: Baptiste and Staci Jansen Scottsdale, AZ   Nov 03, 2009

The kind, loving, and unjudgemental spirit that Cassie had will be missed by all. She truly was a very special person that touched everyone she met.
Posted by: Baptiste and Staci Jansen Scottsdale, AZ   Nov 03, 2009

To the Rutledge Family, Our thoughts go out to your family and we are truly sorry for the loss of Cassie. She was a wonderful neighbor and will be greatly missed. Sincerely, Nikki & Hunter and everyone at Brickton Village
Posted by: Nikki MItchell of Brickton Village Fletcher, NC   Nov 03, 2009

Dear Gene and Diane, We are so sorry to hear about Cassie. Our thoughts and prayers are with you during this most difficult time. Yours, Meg and Jorg
Posted by: Meg and Jorg Ronke Brevard, NC   Nov 03, 2009

Cassie, you were a joy to be around and to work with each day. We are grieving with your parents but know that you are with the Lord. God bless you for your life and the influence that you have had on so many others.
Posted by: Joe and Jan Scott Burnsville, NC   Nov 03, 2009

Diane, Gene & Family, I am so sorry to hear of Cassie's passing. She was a beautiful person inside and out. Your family is in my thoughts and prayers.
Posted by: Hannah Bradley Charleston, SC   Nov 03, 2009

All of us are deeply saddened by the loss of a truly amazing person. Cassie has made me smile and laugh ever since middle school and high school. She will be missed. And words can't describe this well enough. Because of Cassie I can keep smiling and laughing as I remember the life she shared with all of us.
Posted by: Mark Stroupe Raleigh, NC   Nov 03, 2009

Diane, My heartfelt sympathy is extended to you and your family at this most difficult time. I pray God will comfort and give to you needed emotional and physical strength in the days ahead.
Posted by: Prebble Henrickson Concord, NC   Nov 03, 2009

Dear Gene, Diane and Hampton: How can I ever express how deeply sorry I am for your great loss. Cassie was always so sweet and kind to me and to Trevor. She always had that beautiful smile and that twinkle in her eyes. Everyone could just see the joy and the kindness in her. Trevor is so very sad and is having a hard time understanding, as is everyone I am sure. God is good and I believe he has a plan for everything. God must have needed another Angel, so Cassie will be that Angel. My heart and my prayers are with you and I am just a phone call away, if there is anything at all I can do. Love and Prayers Robbie & Trevor
Posted by: Robbie Taylor Arden, NC   Nov 03, 2009

God loaned you a daughter. May your memories give you strength.
Posted by: Tim & Pamela Roberts Arden, NC   Nov 03, 2009

Wow - the love and joy that radiated from Cassie each day...she truly was a kindred spirit! She made us all laugh...and I loved to hear her stories, her love for her family, how her brother would play practical jokes on her growing up and how much she loved him for it, how great her parents were...and, of course, the love she had for Molly! Always smiling, always cheerful, always living life to its fullest. She always made it a point to have M&Ms on her desk for us to snack on...always thoughtful, always positive, and always glowing. We miss her!
Posted by: Melissa Graham Burnsville, NC   Nov 03, 2009

Cassie was a wonderful addition to the Mountain Air family- always smiling and extremely helpful. She will be missed. Our thoughts and prayers will be with the Rutledge family.
Posted by: Tony & Lacey Gray Winter Park, FL   Nov 03, 2009

Our thoughts and prayers are with you at this difficult time. Cassie has touch alot of people in a short time. If we can do anything let us know. We will be praying for all the family. Our deepest sympathy. The Staff of Kmart Pharmacy
Posted by: Kmart Pharmacy Asheville, NC   Nov 03, 2009

Cassie, you were such a kind person and a true friend to everyone you knew. I can still see your beautiful smile and hear your contagious laugh. Your positive outlook on life was rare and made an everlasting impression on us all. We are so lucky to have had you in our lives, if only for a short amount of time. I will miss you more than words can say. My deepest sympathies go out to Cassie's family. May your wonderful memories of her keep you strong during this difficult time.
Posted by: Stephanie Roper Atlanta, GA   Nov 03, 2009

Dear Diane and family, I am so deeply sorry for the loss of your wonderful and beautiful daughter. I unfortunately know the pain and sadness associated with the loss of a child. Cassie will always live and rejoice in your heart. My thoughts and prayers are with your family.
Posted by: Becky Petersen Charlotte, NC   Nov 03, 2009

Cassie, I will always remember your beautiful smile and your aura of light. The world just became a little dimmer. We will miss you.
Posted by: Jason Hodges Asheville, NC   Nov 03, 2009

Dear Cassie, You lit up the room with your smile and ready laughter whenever your entered a room; it was such a joy to have you with us! I felt that you genuinely cared about each and every one of us by sharing your loving presence. You were taken from us far too soon and I will miss you. Dear Diane, Gene and family, I am deeply sorry for your loss. Cassie was very special and I know that in her passing a big hole is left in your hearts right now. Have peace in knowing that she is with our loving Savior in a place where there is joy, peace and freedom from disease. We know and look forward to seeing her again in heaven! In God’s love, Judy
Posted by: Judy Grobe Asheville, NC   Nov 03, 2009

My heart and thoughts go out to those who will remain here missing Cassie.
Posted by: Korita Steverson Asheville, NC   Nov 03, 2009

Cassie was a precious person and we will miss her so much. Her smile was warm, sweet, and contagious. I was really enjoying our budding friendship and sharing the "joy of signing" with her. Diane, Gene, and the rest of Cassie's family, our hope is in the Lord, and so we pray for your peace and comfort, knowing that Cassie is with Jesus now.
Posted by: Kari, Kevin, Olivia, and Genevieve Kopp Arden, NC   Nov 03, 2009

Cassie - It's true, you were a kind, genunine soul. I'm grateful for the memories made with you throughout middle school and high school. I am certainly praying for your family as they deal with your absence now. Much love, Mary
Posted by: Mary Watson Dailey Boone, NC   Nov 03, 2009

Cassie, your kindness and love were always contagious. I will never forget your beautiful smile and kind heart. Heaven is a better place with you as an angel. My thoughts and prayers are with the Rutledge family and the many people whose lives were touched by Cassie.
Posted by: Brandi Neumann Traverse City, MI   Nov 03, 2009

Dear Diane, How very sad I feel for you and your family. I cannot even comprehend how you all are feeling. Please know you are in my thoughts and prayers. Debbie
Posted by: Debbie Pennell Lenoir, NC   Nov 03, 2009

I am so sorry for your loss. Cassie was a wonderful person. She always had a kind word and a sweet smile for everyone. She will be missed. God speed to the family.
Posted by: Tammy Arden, NC   Nov 03, 2009

Cassie, I am a better person having known you and I thank God for putting you in my life. Your bright smile is shining down on all of us from heaven and I rejoice in the fact that you are living in eternity with our Lord free of the burden of diabetes. You friendship was deeply important to me and I will forever cherish the short, but wonderful time that we had to become dear friends. God bless you Diane, Gene, and Hampton. 1 Peter 5:7
Posted by: Justin Field Asheville, NC   Nov 03, 2009

I am so sorry for your loss. Cassie was a wonderful person, and I enjoyed working with her at The Cliffs at Walnut Cove. She always had a smile or a kind word for those around her, and she will be missed!
Posted by: Janine Entwistle Flat Rock, NC   Nov 03, 2009

Dear Gene & Diane, Words can't say how sorry I am for your loss. It is always difficult losing a child and losing one as special as Cassie makes it even harder. Please know that I am praying that God will give you the strength to go on and that Cassie is in a much better place then any of us. We will see her again of that I have no doubt. Please know that if there is anything I can do for you during this difficult time all you have to do is ask. May God's love shine on both of you now as you face these difficult days. Peace to you both.
Posted by: Claudia Zibell Dallas, NC   Nov 03, 2009

Its hard to imagine that we've known each other for almost 25 years now. And still to this day I can remember your beautiful smile walking up and down the halls of Glen Arden. You touched a lot of people Cassie, and leave us all with remarkable memories. I will miss you dearly and always love you. Mr.and Mrs. Rutledge, and Hampton...I cant posssibly imagine what you are experiencing right now. I am undoubtedly blessed to have grown up with Cassie. She made us all smile each and everyday. She truly reached us all in ways you cant explain.
Posted by: Nick Iannucci Asheville, NC   Nov 03, 2009

I have some of the most wonderful memories of Cassie from middle and high school. One in particular involves Cassie trying to teach me a Roberson cheer and remaining ever so patient and optimistic as I attempted to "nail it." Pretty sure I never did. Cassie was so genuine. Genuinely nice. Genuinely caring. I know the entire TCR graduating class of '98 loved and respected her. We will all miss her deeply. My deepest condolences for Mr. and Mrs. Rutledge and Hampton. My husband and I will continue to send up many prayers for you from Chicago.
Posted by: Natalie Pless Taylor Chicago, IL   Nov 03, 2009

Words cannot describe this loss. Cassie was a dear friend who brought tremendous joy to so many lives. Her beautiful smile and loving heart will remain with us always. Mr. and Mrs. Rutledge and Hampton, My deepest sympathies for your loss. My prayers are with you during this difficult time. Cassie meant so much to us all.
Posted by: Michelle Matera Raleigh, NC   Nov 03, 2009

Words simply cannot express my heartbreak for your family during this time. I think that any one of us that had Cassie in our lives were truly blessed. Such a sweet and wonderful soul. You are all in my thoughts and prayers during this very difficult time. I am so very sorry for you loss.
Posted by: Serenity Lane Talbott, TN   Nov 03, 2009

Cassie, I remember many wonderful years with you...cheerleading and hanging out and having a great time. We will miss you greatly, but cherish the memories. May God Bless You and Keep You until we see you again.
Posted by: Christie Moser Cary, NC   Nov 03, 2009

My thoughts and Prayers are with you and your family during this hard time. May God hold you in his loving arms and carry you through.
Posted by: Tina Bates Harwood asheville, NC   Nov 03, 2009

Dear Rutledge Family, I went to school with Cassie in Asheville and, as so many others have said, I remember her as a sweet, genuine, and fun-loving soul. Her passing is a great loss to everyone who ever knew her. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
Posted by: Laura Blake Savannah, GA   Nov 03, 2009

Cassie was always upbeat and a joy to be around every day. I'm better for having known her. Celebrate her life and how many she touched. Our thoughts are with the Rutledge family as they try to cope with this tragedy.
Posted by: Ben & Kay Wax Fletcher, NC   Nov 03, 2009

My heart goes out to Cassie's family. She touched so many in her short time here and everyone that knew Cassie loved her. You will be missed
Posted by: Mark Ledbetter Asheville, NC   Nov 03, 2009

Gene, Dianne and Hampton, please know that you are in our prayers and thoughts. May the Lord watch over you and keep you through the coming days.......and may the peace of knowing that Cassie is in the loving arms of God bring comfort and peace to your hearts.
Posted by: Wayne & Pat Carmack Mocksville, NC   Nov 03, 2009

Diane and Gene, I can only imagine the pain you are going through and hope you find comfort in the prayers and love that surrounds you during this difficult time. We knew Cassie from our Skyland UMC days and please know that we hold you and your family close in our hearts and prayers. Ron and Patti Dayton
Posted by: Ron Dayton Mooresville, NC   Nov 03, 2009

I am so sorry for your loss. She was always a great friend to my sister, Stacey.
Posted by: Melissa Mayhue-Schlagmuller Fletcher, NC   Nov 03, 2009

My heart breaks that this world has lost such a truly amazing person, way too soon. Cassie was loved by everyone, and I mean EVERYONE. To her parents: you reared an incredible girl to be a beautiful woman, inside and out. May you find peace during this difficult time. You were so blessed to have been given her as your daughter, and judging by the truly sincere, sweet, and loving person she became as an adult, she was so fortunate to have had you both as parents. As a friend who has known Cassie since Middle School -she will be missed by the entire Roberson class of '98.
Posted by: Sallie Kaltreider Namey Asheville, NC   Nov 03, 2009

Diane, Gene & Hampton, Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family during this time of immense grief. Cassie always brought such a bright light to a room. She will be missed by all who knew her, but left behind wonderful memories for all to remember.
Posted by: Donna & Allen Mayhue Fletcher, NC   Nov 03, 2009

You were a ray of sunshine Cassie! ALways had a smile on your face & such a sweet sincere voice. And your giggle w/ that snort added to the end, ALWAYS got everyone to laugh! You are now in the "homes" of homes, HEAVEN! And I know your shining down on all of us! Thanks for being such a true person Cassie. We will miss you!
Posted by: Tiffany Long Fletcher, NC   Nov 03, 2009

Cassie was a beautiful person on the inside and out. My prayers are with you all.
Posted by: Kristine Arden, NC   Nov 03, 2009

Dear Family; We are so sorry for your loss. Cassie was always shinning and always had a hug and story to tell. We know she is at peace with God and is probably got her space in heaven decorated... She will always be with us, in a song, in the sun shine and most of all in our hearts.
Posted by: steve and jeri geldner fletcher, NC   Nov 03, 2009

Diane and Gene, I am so sorry to hear about Cassie. Please know that you are in my thoughts and prayers. I can only imagine your pain and pray you find peace in knowing you are loved by many. I will talk to you soon. Thelma
Posted by: Thelma Tesner Greenville, SC   Nov 03, 2009

Diane, Gene, and Coleman family: I am so very sorry for your loss; you are each in my thoughts and prayers; May God comfort you and ease your grief
Posted by: Jennye Zeugner Johnson Fletcher, NC   Nov 03, 2009

Cassie you truly had a heart of gold and brought a ray of sunshine everywhere you went. It was truly a pleasure and honor to call you my friend. To the Rutledge family, Cassie was so many things to so many people. She was truly an amazing individual! My sincere condolences to you during this time! You will all be in my thoughts and prayers!
Posted by: Laura Rich Arden, NC   Nov 03, 2009

Cassie, you were obviously so much to so many! Our prayers and condolences to your family. We will all miss her!
Posted by: Justin & Jeanna Boeckler Chapel Hill, NC   Nov 03, 2009

Cassie was such a sweet and loving person. We are all the better for having known her. Cassie is truly an angel. My thoughts and prayers are with the Rutledge family.
Posted by: Betsy Sutherland Charleston, SC   Nov 03, 2009

It is so sad when someone dies so young and we want to ask ourselves why? God needed you Cassie for something bigger and better. You will be missed so much. You are a beautiful person inside and out. I love you!
Posted by: Courtney Jones Atlanta, GA   Nov 03, 2009

Mr & Mrs Rutledge & Hampton; There are no words to express the grief and heartbreak. I can only hope the love circulating around Cassie provides some type of peace to you in such a hard time. Your Angel is watching down on all of us now, thank you for allowing her to be a part of our lives. We are all better for having known her. Love you all, Tiffany
Posted by: Tiffany Angel Abbey Pinehurst, NC   Nov 03, 2009

It seems like yesterday we were all in High School, and now we have moved into different places yet our lives are still intertwined. I will always have wonderful memories of Cassie, and though this makes no sense, I take comfort in knowing we will see her again. My thoughts and prayers are with you all. Love, Susan
Posted by: Susan Hollis Peterson Oxford, MS   Nov 03, 2009

Cassie, you will be missed. You were such a beautiful person with the biggest smile. You and your family are in my prayers.
Posted by: Kirti Loper Cary, NC   Nov 03, 2009

Diane and Gene, Please know that my prayers are with you now and in the days to come. My heart aches for you and your family. May the peace of God that passeth all understanding be with you.
Posted by: Paula Alsup Edwards morganton, NC   Nov 03, 2009

Cassie I heard so many great things about you through my daughter Adrienne. You are a dear sweet soul and now you're home in heaven with the Lord. Our prayers and condolences to your family.
Posted by: Regina Elliott Swannanoa, NC   Nov 03, 2009

My thoughts and prayers are with the Rutledge family at this time. Cassie filled the room with her joy everyday she was with us, let her memory live on in the hearts of all she touched. I will miss you Cassie, til we meet again.
Posted by: Kevin Knowland Fletcher, NC   Nov 03, 2009

Cassie you will be truly missed. Your heart of gold will live through all those that you have touched in your precious existence!! May God give your family strength and peace throughout this rough time! Fly with the angels Cassie!
Posted by: Poconna Raleigh, NC   Nov 03, 2009

Cassie you where a great friend. I know that God is smiling and is welcoming you home. You will be missed Girl!
Posted by: Natasha Roberts asheville, NC   Nov 03, 2009

To the Rutledge family: I hope you find comfort in knowing that Cassie touched the lives of so many people from so many different walks of life. She was a genuine, caring soul... May God hold you all close during the coming days.
Posted by: Lauren Arden, NC   Nov 03, 2009

We first had the opportunity to know Cassie when she worked with us at Champion Hills and later at CB. She had the greatest, sweetest attitude of any young person that I had ever been around. It was a true joy to have known her.
Posted by: Valen and Malinda Vera Cruz Arden, NC   Nov 03, 2009

Cassie, May your light shine on us from above. You were an amazing soul and will be missed beyond words. To the Rutledge family, I am truly sorry for you loss. Cassie was a beautiful person who touched so many lives. May your memories of her give you strength to make it through this difficult time. Love, Desiree
Posted by: Desiree Austin Clonch Raleigh, NC   Nov 03, 2009